The fact is the only outcome of a battleground is ashes. Emotions are high and trust is low – a perfect combination for a fiery battle. What is accomplished in those battles? How many people have shared their wonderful experience of divorce with you? Likely none.

It is not a question of losing; it is a question of how much are you going to lose – make no mistake about that.

Divorce should not be about destroying the enemy; it should be about bringing a fair ending to a partnership and laying the foundation for both parties to move on. You do not have to fight to have a fair outcome. You do not need to destroy assets to get the piece of the pie that is rightfully yours. You can move through your divorce with confidence; you can make empowered decisions; you can keep your assets. You can do all this at a lower cost, without the fear and anxiety laden in the traditional system.